„She wanted to be near her husband, and what would become of me was not taken into account.“

—  Henryk Sienkiewicz, Context: Aniela knew very well that her departure would be to me a more dangerous catastrophe than a wound on my head or the loss of an arm or leg; and yet she did not hesitate a moment. I was perfectly aware that it was all her doing. She wanted to be near her husband, and what would become of me was not taken into account. 11 July
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écrivain polonais, lauréat du Prix Nobel de littérature en … 1846 - 1916
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